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Do overemotional people hold the key to happiness?
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By Emine Saner
I feel I’m too sensitive for this world,” says Lena, who can’t cope with crowds or bright lights. Melissa gets her husband to watch films before her to see if she will be able to handle any violence, gore or scariness. When their grownup children bring the grandchildren round, she has to retreat to another room because their “loud laughter, the talking over each other, their swearing and their smells overwhelm me”. Lucia says she can feel “each and every fibre of her clothes” and it feels very ticklish or uncomfortable at times. Sometimes, she has to stop during sex with her partner because it becomes “too ticklish”.
Lena, Melissa and Lucia would all describe themselves as highly sensitive, a label that could be applied to up to 20% of us, according to the US-based psychologist Elaine Aron, who started studying high sensitivity in the early 90s, and published her influential book The Highly Sensitive Person in 1996.
“When these people have information coming in, they process it much more deeply and more elaborately,” explains Genevieve von Lob, a clinical psychologist who works with many highly sensitive people, especially children. “They tend to take in much more information from lots of different kinds of stimuli. And then they’re processing it more deeply than a non-sensitive person – and because they’re taking in so much at once they can get much more overstimulated, overaroused and overwhelmed.”
One in five of us struggle to cope with everyday smells, sounds and images. Rather than a weakness, this extreme sensitivity could be a strength in everything from the pandemic to the climate crisis.
When the Guardian asked readers to share their experiences of high sensitivity, more than 300 people responded. Over some 40,000 words, they wrote about feeling drained by their ability to tune into other people’s emotions, or exhausted from working in open-plan offices or a visit to the supermarket. It was common to report crying at emotional adverts, but also to be dismayed and deeply affected by political events. “I found austerity horrifying,” writes one. “I work in a school that has been directly impacted by cuts. I teach children who are experiencing the effects of neglected public services and parents who are financially unstable. If poverty continues to rise in this country, I know I will be spending a lot more time crying in my classroom.”
Several people reported wearing headphones “to block out the world”, and avoiding social media lest a crossword ruins their day or week. Criticism at work can stay with them for years, other people’s perfume feels like an assault and relationships can be tricky.
“It is difficult to explain to someone why the noise and light of the television in the morning feels like being punched in the face, or why the texture of their favourite scratchy blanket makes me want to cry, without sounding like an insane person,” wrote one woman. “I wish I were not a highly sensitive person – it has made my life much more difficult.” Others remembered being told to “toughen up” as a child, or had lived for decades with the feeling there was something wrong with them.
As a result, a lot of highly sensitive people have low self-esteem, von Lob says. “Often they might have been bullied at school. Society tends to view it as a weakness, and they can get these labels like ‘fragile’ or ‘overemotional’. I think people who are highly sensitive can often feel lonely and misunderstood, and not normal. The world feels too harsh, too loud for them. It’s not surprising that they struggle to accept themselves and they struggle to value their gifts because of the messages they have received.”
But while our noisy, frenetic, always-on world can be an unforgiving place, there is some hope. Our understanding of what it means to be highly sensitive and how to cope with the unpleasant side-effects is increasing.
It is hard to explain why the noise and light of the TV feels like being punched in the face.
Self-acceptance is key, says von Lob. High sensitivity is innate, and not something to be diagnosed or “treated”, though people can learn coping mechanisms for when life becomes overwhelming. “I can’t emphasise enough how much you need unstructured downtime – plenty of sleep and rest,” says von Lob. The highly sensitive “need to pace themselves. Because they take in so much more and they have more intense emotions, they need time to process the emotions in their body, so movement can be really helpful – walks, or kickboxing or dance or yoga, whatever type of movement they enjoy. Because they’re people who are deep thinkers, they’ve got very rich inner worlds, and it’s really important for them to have those sort of meaningful, deeper connections in relationships.”
Time spent in nature can be helpful, she adds. “And simplifying life, so having less clutter around, less of a busy schedule. That’s why they work well with self-employment or being able to structure their own work day.” It is important, she says, not to compare yourself with other people, “because if you’re comparing yourself with the mainstream world of the non-sensitive, you’re never going to be able to do what they do, but you’ve got your unique strengths”.
Because being highly sensitive is a strength – or a “superpower”, as more than one respondent put it. “The advantages are that it makes me a really good listener, good at conversation,” says Samira. “I’m able to find underlying meanings easily, I’m very intuitive and I have a rich inner life with a strong emotional vocabulary.” Others report hearing nuances in music that the average person might miss, or being deeply empathetic with friends. Highly sensitive people tend to notice things in the environment that may pass others by, and get more from the arts.
Meeting people who embraced their quiet, joyful natures was transforming, and I embraced my own sensitivity.
Louise, a researcher, grew up believing it was “wrong” to be so sensitive. It was only in her 30s, when she was unhappy in her job, that she went on a sculpture holiday and reconnected with her love of art. “That holiday completely changed me – I met similarly sensitive people and for the first time realised that being sensitive was OK. The people I met there didn’t think being ‘soft’ was bad, and were comfortable discussing their own sensitivity, their ability to find joy in beautiful things, to feel deeply about the world around them,” she says. “Meeting people who embraced their quiet, joyful natures was transforming and I came back embracing my own sensitivity. I started reading and creating again and thought carefully about my career and how it failed to nurture me. I gave myself permission to be the sensitive person I really was.”
She started a PhD, and: “Several years later, my life is transformed. My sensitivity has become my strength and it is the reason for the success of my research, which involves working with vulnerable people. My work is reliant on deep thinking and deep human connection. I am open about my need for a quiet office and my employers have been brilliant, understanding the impact of overstimulation in larger offices. I wish I had realised earlier in my life that being highly sensitive could be a strength, rather than a weakness.”
There has been a question over whether high sensitivity is a sign of autism, but Michael Pluess, professor of developmental psychology and sensitivity researcher at Queen Mary University of London, says that, although both feature a more responsive sensory system, “sensitivity and autism are probably two fairly separate things” (highly sensitive children may originally be diagnosed as having autism spectrum disorder). Similarly, it’s not about being an introvert, as there are extroverts who are also highly sensitive. Aron’s work is around the idea that sensitivity is a personality trait, although other researchers come at it from a biological or physiological perspective.
Pluess doesn’t like the term “highly sensitive personality”; he prefers to think of sensitivity as a continuum. “Everyone is sensitive – we would not be able to survive without being sensitive to the environment – but some people are more sensitive than others, and having a higher sensitivity has benefits and also challenges.”
It might be exactly what we need, if only society could recognise and nurture people with these traits.
It’s about knowing that being highly sensitive is not a weakness, says von Lob. In fact, it might be exactly what we need, if only society could recognise and nurture people with these traits. There are thought to be as many men as women who have high sensitivity, but for cultural reasons to do with ideas of “masculinity” these traits are not seen as desirable – to the detriment of all of us. “Some of the strengths are that they are very self-aware, they have this great capacity for empathy,” says von Lob. “So that’s really good in leadership roles. They often are creative people, so they could be the visionaries of our world – they come up with different ways of thinking from the mainstream. They have a very strong sense of justice and fairness. They’re very good listeners, and question rules that don’t make sense. They’re very conscientious, because they look at details. We need these kind of skills and awareness in the world at the moment.”
The ongoing response to the pandemic and the climate emergency are both vital areas that could benefit from the abilities of highly sensitive people, says von Lob. “They can use their passion, their intuitive knowledge and their self-awareness to be part of the solution.”
Isadora often wears earplugs while out and about to dull some of the “jarring” noise, can’t bear the odour of cleaning products or cooking smells, and finds loud music in restaurants unbearable. Still, she says, “despite the challenges, I’m glad to be highly sensitive because I feel that the world could benefit from more sensitive individuals. There is an overabundance of insensitivity.”
Emine Saner is a feature writer for the Guardian
Source: Guardian
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Start Your Day Right: The Benefits of a Clutter-Free Desk
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Samy DeyyabIn today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy for our workspaces to become cluttered with papers, gadgets, and miscellaneous items. While this might seem harmless, a disorganized desk can negatively impact your focus, productivity, and even emotional well-being. Fortunately, the solution is simple: start your day by cleaning your desk.
The Science Behind a Clean Desk
Why does tidying up make such a difference? A key reason lies in how our brains process visual information. Studies like those conducted at Princeton University have demonstrated that cluttered environments overwhelm the brain’s visual cortex, making it harder to concentrate and process information. This clutter-induced distraction leads to irritability, stress, and reduced productivity.
Moreover, a study by DePaul University revealed that clutter is a significant predictor of procrastination. When our environment is chaotic, we tend to put off tasks, leading to a cycle of stress and decreased quality of life. Another study from UCLA found that people who perceive their homes as cluttered experience higher levels of cortisol, the stress hormone, which is linked to negative health outcomes like depression and anxiety.
By taking a few minutes each day to organize your workspace, you can significantly improve your mental clarity, emotional stability, and decision-making abilities.
Practical Steps to Declutter
1. Start small:
Begin with the most frequently used areas, such as your desk or computer desktop. This approach makes the task manageable and prevents you from feeling overwhelmed. Use the five-minute rule: dedicate just five minutes to tidying up. Often, this small commitment leads to much more progress than anticipated.
2. Embrace digital tools:
Technology can be a great ally in staying organized. Utilize digital task management apps like Todoist or Trello to keep track of your to-do lists and deadlines. Cloud storage solutions like Google Drive or Dropbox can help you declutter your physical space by digitizing important documents. By leveraging these tools, you can physically and digitally maintain a clean and organized workspace.
3. Schedule regular maintenance:
Staying organized is an ongoing process. Set aside 10-15 minutes each day for “maintenance” time. This could be as simple as filing away papers, deleting unnecessary files from your computer, or tidying up your workspace. Consistency is key, and this small daily habit can prevent clutter from accumulating.
4. Automate Routine Tasks:
Automation can also help keep your workspace organized. Use tools like Zapier to automate repetitive tasks, such as sorting emails or backing up files. By reducing the manual work involved in maintaining your digital space, you free up mental bandwidth for more important tasks.
5. Make It Fun:
For those who find cleaning a chore, turn it into a social activity. At work, consider organizing team-wide “spring cleaning” days where everyone tidies up their workspace together, perhaps with music or snacks. For your workspace, set a timer and challenge yourself to see how much you can accomplish in that time. Making the process enjoyable can increase your motivation to keep your space tidy.
The Broader Impact of Decluttering
A clean workspace does more than just make you feel better in the moment—it sets the stage for long-term success. By removing physical obstacles, you also clear mental obstacles, leading to improved focus, better decision-making, and a greater sense of control over your environment. This psychological boost can extend to other areas of your life, helping you tackle challenges with greater confidence and clarity.
Incorporating technology into your decluttering efforts not only streamlines the process but also helps you stay organized in the long run. Whether it’s through digital task management, automation, or regular maintenance, these tools can play a crucial role in maintaining a clear, focused, and productive work environment.
In a world filled with distractions, maintaining a clean and organized workspace is more important than ever. By starting your day with a simple act of decluttering, you can harness the power of emotional intelligence to improve your focus, reduce stress, and enhance your overall productivity. So the next time you’re feeling overwhelmed, take a few minutes to tidy up your desk. Your mind—and your work—will thank you.
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Mind Games in Marketing: How Companies Influence Our Choices
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Jimmy WalterIn the ever-changing world of marketing and design, brands have developed sophisticated strategies to influence consumer behavior and perceptions. From the medicine we take to the cars we drive, the power of branding shapes every aspect of consumer choice.
The Psychological Influence of Branding
Branding is more than just a marketing tool; it’s a psychological phenomenon that can significantly shape our actions and physiological responses. A striking example is the effectiveness of medicines based on their branding.
Identical ingredients in a branded medicine like Tylenol and its generic counterpart can yield different perceptions of effectiveness due to the price or packaging color. Similarly, the mere presence of a familiar logo, such as MasterCard, can trigger customers to spend up to 30% more. These examples underscore how branding taps into our subconscious, influencing our decisions and experiences without explicit awareness.
Branding is a psychological phenomenon, subtly shaping our choices and experiences.
Beyond its psychological effects, branding has evolved into a placebo, offering more than a product. Companies now sell a sense of belonging and identity. This phenomenon is not new; it traces back to ancient times when craftsmen would imprint symbols on their goods as a mark of authenticity and origin.
However, modern branding has taken this concept to new heights. By crafting a unique brand image and narrative, companies reel in consumers, offering them a sense of inclusion in a particular ‘tribal’ group. This powerful tool leverages our innate desire for social belonging and identity, driving our purchasing decisions.
The Role of Visual Signaling
A critical aspect of branding is its reliance on visual elements to convey a product’s quality and benefits. From the stripes on toothpaste tubes to the design of food packaging, visual signals play a pivotal role in shaping consumer perceptions and trust.
However, this visual shorthand can sometimes cross ethical boundaries, leading to deceptive practices. For example, car companies may add fake vents to their designs, creating an illusion of enhanced performance. This manipulation highlights brands’ fine line between honest representation and misleading consumers for increased sales.
Visual elements in branding are pivotal in forging consumer trust and perception.
One of the more cunning tactics in the branding playbook is the creation of artificial scarcity. Brands like Apple or certain fashion labels release limited quantities of new products, generating a fear of missing out and driving up demand.
This strategy capitalizes on human psychology, where we desire what we perceive as scarce or exclusive. However, this often leads to ethical dilemmas, as companies intentionally limit supply not due to production constraints but as a marketing ploy.
The Ethics of Branding
The ethics of branding are a complex and nuanced topic. While branding can foster a sense of community and enhance the consumer experience, it often prioritizes company profits over truthful representation.
Consumers should be aware of these tactics, recognizing that brands are ultimately tools for increasing sales, not benevolent entities safeguarding values or social causes. For instance, when a brand aligns with political or social issues, it is often a calculated move to tap into consumer sentiments and loyalty rather than a genuine commitment to the cause.
Ethically navigating branding’s power demands informed consumer awareness and discernment.
In conclusion, the influence of branding on our daily lives is profound and multifaceted. From shaping our perceptions of product effectiveness to fostering a sense of identity and belonging, branding has become an integral part of the consumer experience.
However, it’s crucial for consumers to remain aware of companies’ tactics and understand the line between clever marketing and manipulative practices. By doing so, we can make more informed choices, recognizing the power of branding while remaining cognizant of its potential to mislead and manipulate.
As we navigate this complex landscape, it’s essential to remember that while branding can create meaningful experiences, it should never compromise our ability to discern reality from marketing fiction.
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On the other hand, there were also signs of hope as nations stepped up their efforts to combat climate change and protect biodiversity, and innovative technologies emerged to address environmental challenges.
Climate Crisis
2023 was one of the hottest years ever recorded, with temperatures edging closer to the 1.5°C threshold set by the Paris Climate Agreement. Heatwaves ravaged Europe, North America, and Asia, pushing temperatures above 40°C in cities like London and Paris. Forest fires burned across continents, turning vast swathes of land into infernos.
The melting of polar and mountain glaciers accelerated, with the extent of Arctic sea ice reaching a record low in September and the Greenland ice sheet losing a staggering 26 billion tons of ice in a single day.
The Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change (IPCC) issued a stark warning this year, stating that human activity is fundamentally altering the climate system in unprecedented and often irreversible ways.
Carbon dioxide levels in the atmosphere reached 419 parts per million in 2023, surpassing the previous year’s record and cementing the reality of a warming planet.
Conflicts and Challenges
Economists have called for policies that incentivize a shift towards low-emission energy sources, such as carbon taxes, to address the market failures contributing to the climate crisis.
The ongoing war in Ukraine has raised concerns about the impact of conflicts on the global transition to clean energy. Will the conflict lead to increased investment in fossil fuels, hindering progress towards cleaner energy sources? Or will it catalyze the acceleration of the adoption of renewable energy, demonstrating its resilience and potential?
Despite these challenges, the world will witness a noticeable increase in the use of renewable energy sources in 2023. Countries like Germany and Denmark achieved record shares of clean energy in their electricity grids, highlighting the viability and potential of solar and wind power. Investment in solar energy surged, with installations reaching new heights around the globe.
A Glimmer of Hope
Amidst the dire warnings and extreme weather events, there were signs of hope and resilience. Global efforts to combat climate change continued to gain momentum in 2023, with the focus shifting towards implementing radical emission reductions to keep global warming within 1.5°C. Interest in developing carbon capture and storage technologies also intensified, demonstrating the commitment to addressing the root cause of the climate crisis.
The World Climate Summit (COP28) in Dubai provided a platform for nations to unite in their efforts to address climate change and protect biodiversity. The summit highlighted the need for a fair and equitable approach to addressing the climate crisis, ensuring that developing nations have access to the necessary resources to adapt to and mitigate the effects of climate change.
A Sustainable Future
The year 2023 saw the development of innovative technologies and solutions to address environmental challenges. Pioneering projects like harvesting solar energy using water canals in India and growing “alternative meat” in Singapore laboratories demonstrated the potential for transformative innovation in the realm of sustainability.
Electric vehicles gained broader adoption in 2023, as major automakers announced ambitious plans to phase out conventional motor vehicles. While carbon capture and storage technologies are still in their early stages, they promise to mitigate the effects of greenhouse gas emissions and contribute to achieving global net-zero emissions by 2050.
On a societal level, 2023 witnessed a surge in popular movements and youth initiatives demanding action on environmental issues. From climate strikes calling for serious action from world leaders to local groups organizing cleanups and tree plantings, individuals worldwide came together to create positive change.
As we bid farewell to 2023, we are left with a complex environmental legacy. While the challenges remain daunting, the year also witnessed inspiring innovations and a growing commitment to addressing the climate crisis and protecting biodiversity.
The path forward is uncertain, but the glimmer of hope offers a roadmap towards a sustainable future.
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However, staying fit while working a desk job isn’t just a possibility; it’s necessary to maintain overall health and well-being.
Here’s a comprehensive guide to staying active and healthy, even in front of a computer.
Workplace Wellness
First and foremost, setting up an ergonomic workspace is crucial. Ergonomics, the science of designing the workplace to fit the user’s needs, aims to improve efficiency and reduce discomfort. Ensure that your chair supports your lower back, your feet are flat on the ground, and your computer screen is at eye level to avoid strain.
An ergonomic keyboard and mouse can also prevent repetitive strain injuries. Investing in a standing desk or an under-desk elliptical can be beneficial, too.
Mini Workouts
Integrating mini-workouts into your daily routine can be remarkably effective. Take a five-minute break every hour to stretch or do a quick set of exercises.
Desk-based stretches, chair squats, leg lifts, or even simple neck and shoulder stretches can keep your muscles active.
These short bursts of activity improve physical health and boost mental alertness and productivity.
Walk and Talk
Incorporate movement into your communication. Opt for walking meetings instead of sitting in a conference room.
If you’re on a call, walk around your office or outside if possible. This not only breaks the monotony of sitting but also invigorates your mind.
Healthy Eating at Work
Diet plays a significant role in staying fit. Avoid the temptation of snacking on junk food. Opt for healthier options like fruits, nuts, or yogurt.
Keep a water bottle at your desk to stay hydrated. If you’re prone to forgetting, set reminders to drink water throughout the day.
Stress Management
Prolonged computer work can be mentally taxing. Practice mindfulness and stress management techniques like deep breathing or meditation during breaks. Apps that guide you through short meditation sessions can be easily incorporated into your workday.
Incorporating these practices into your daily work routine can significantly improve your fitness and overall health. Remember, it’s the small changes that make a big difference over time.
With a combination of ergonomic awareness, mini workouts, movement-integrated communication, healthy eating, and mindfulness, you can maintain a high level of fitness, even while working a desk job.
Stay active, eat well, and engage your mind for a healthier work life.
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Mona RossyAs we navigate the prolonged waves of the pandemic, a common narrative has emerged among individuals from all walks of life. Many are finding themselves trapped in a state of stagnation and emptiness, a phenomenon that has become all too familiar in our current global situation.
This feeling, often termed ‘languishing,’ has become a shared experience, resonating deeply with people worldwide.
The Double-Edged Sword of Rest
The feeling of stagnation or immobility, frequently accompanied by a sense of emptiness, is what languishing encapsulates. It’s as if life is being viewed through a foggy lens, where days blend into one another without a sense of progress or fulfillment.
This feeling gained widespread recognition during the pandemic, offering individuals a label for their experiences and a sense of solidarity with others in the same boat.
The initial prescription was rest in response to this widespread sense of burnout and emotional fatigue. Physical, emotional, social, and spiritual rest were all emphasized as crucial for recovery.
However, an extended period of rest has its pitfalls. It can lead to a state of inertia where, despite feeling physically recovered, a psychological sense of disconnection and listlessness persists.
Enter the concept of behavioral activation, a strategy developed in the 1970s. This approach challenges the notion that motivation precedes action. Instead, it posits that taking action, even in small ways, can catalyze motivation. This idea is particularly potent when feeling stuck, as it encourages movement and progress, however incremental.
Moving Beyond Forced Positivity
Behavioral activation contrasts the now-debunked concept of forced positivity – the idea that simply thinking positive thoughts can lead to happiness and success. Current understanding suggests that controlling thoughts and feelings often has the opposite effect. Instead, behavioral activation focuses on engaging in meaningful activities and aligning actions with values and interests, regardless of the prevailing mood or emotional state.
A key aspect of moving beyond languishing involves a shift in mindset. It’s about recognizing and accepting negative emotions without allowing them to dictate one’s actions. This means giving oneself permission to feel low or unmotivated but not seeing these feelings as permanent or insurmountable.
Activation Energy: The Initial Push
The concept of ‘activation energy’ is crucial in this context. It refers to the effort required to initiate a task or activity. During times of stress or emotional fatigue, like in the current pandemic, this activation energy might be higher. Recognizing and accepting this can be the first step in overcoming inertia.
Once the initial resistance is overcome, momentum can start to build. Engaging in minor activities can create a positive feedback loop where action begets more action. This process can gradually lead to an improvement in mood and a sense of accomplishment.
The Role of Small Steps
When dealing with the overwhelming feeling of languishing, small steps matter. It’s about setting manageable goals and celebrating minor victories. Whether making a phone call, organizing a walk with a friend, or dedicating time to a hobby, each small action is a step away from stagnation.
It’s essential to remember that the state of languishing is not permanent. As daunting as it may seem to initiate change while feeling stuck, the effort is worthwhile. The more we engage in actions aligned with our interests and values, the easier it becomes to break free from the rut.
As we continue to face the challenges brought on by the pandemic, it’s crucial to recognize the impact of languishing on our mental health. We can find a way out of the fog by embracing behavioral activation and acknowledging our emotions without letting them control us. It’s about taking that first step, however small, and building momentum from there. In doing so, we can rediscover our motivation and sense of purpose, moving towards a brighter, more fulfilling future.
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Mona RossyHave you ever caught yourself mumbling under your breath about an annoying task or silently cheering yourself on before a big presentation? Congratulations, you’re part of the majority!
The world of self-talk, that little voice inside us, holds more power and potential than most realize. Dive in to unravel the mysteries of this everyday phenomenon.
The Ubiquity of Inner Conversations
It’s a bright morning, and as you scramble to silence the blaring alarm, a soft mutter escapes, “Why on earth did I set it so early?” Moments later, while brushing your teeth, the mirror reflects a contemplative face: “Maybe it’s time for a haircut. Or perhaps not?”
Welcome to the realm of self-talk, an experience almost all of us can relate to. This narration within our heads is as much a part of us as our heartbeat.
The Evolution of Self-Talk
Children, especially those at play, often verbalize their thoughts, openly engaging with imaginary friends or narrating their adventures. This isn’t merely child’s play, though.
Renowned Russian psychologist Lev Vygotsky pinpointed this kind of vocal self-talk as a cornerstone of children’s emotional and behavioral development. By replaying adult-like conversations, children learn to manage their behaviors and emotions.
As adulthood transitions, this external chatter turns inward, evolving into an intimate inner dialogue. Yet, its function remains pivotal.
It aids us in planning and decision-making and even offers that little push of motivation we so often need.
What We Tell Ourselves
Engaging in self-talk isn’t just a pastime; it genuinely affects our psyche. Let’s split this into two – the boon and the bane.
The Boon: Imagine gearing up for a tennis match. A gentle whisper of “I’ve got this, focus on the serve” can amp up concentration levels, translating into a stellar performance. Similarly, addressing oneself by name, a technique known as distanced self-talk can work wonders.
Picture yourself preparing for a nerve-wracking public speech. A motivating “Alex, you’ve got this!” can instantly dial down the anxiety, making the task seem less daunting.
The Bane: Like a coin, self-talk has another side. Negative chatter, “Why am I always messing up?”, can be slippery.
Too much of this, and we risk plunging into the depths of anxiety and depression. It’s akin to having a constant critic inside your head, scrutinizing every move.
Navigating the World of Self-Talk with CBT
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT for short, shines a beacon of hope for those entangled in the web of negative self-talk.
This therapeutic approach focuses on recognizing, challenging, and then reshaping these negative narratives into neutral or positive reflections. Armed with these tools, one can cultivate a healthier, more compassionate relationship with that ever-present inner voice.
Embrace Your Inner Voice
There’s a saying, “Be careful how you speak to yourself because you are listening.” Embracing and fine-tuning our self-talk is more than just self-awareness; it’s an act of self-love. The next time you catch yourself in a silent conversation, remember its power.
Use it as a tool for growth, motivation, and emotional well-being. After all, that inner voice isn’t going anywhere. Why not make it a friend?
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